Let me ask you a question - have you ever thought of seeking help for your marriage on the internet? I know it seems like a strange place to go when you’re dealing with such a personal problem. But, that’s where I finally went for help when I was desperate to save my marriage. And it worked for me!
I never thought that I would need help for my marriage. I thought that the longer you knew your spouse, the better your marriage would be because there would be no surprises. Ha! (A lot I knew when I got married!)
I also thought that if you knew that your spouse was ‘the one’ and if you really, really loved your spouse, then your marriage would be easy.
Uff da! (As we say in the north country). What was I thinking? I have to laugh now because in looking back, I was pretty clueless about what it takes for a marriage to work, or even the fact that a marriage does take work!
After all, I thought our relationship was special! I thought it would never let us down because our love would see us through anything.
Now, fast forward a few years, and I’m sure you can guess what was happening to our marriage. It was going downhill fast. I felt like I was on a runaway train and there was nothing that I could do but watch my marriage derail.
I needed help and I needed answers to save my marriage. I sure didn’t feel (at first) like admitting that I needed help to my friends. It seemed to me that they had it altogether. Counselors were out of the question because of the expense.
Where to go for help? It turns out that I actually found help on the internet! Of all places! But, I actually felt somewhat comfortable looking for help there because I could do it with some privacy (i.e. none of my neighbors knew what I was doing).
[One word of warning though, if you are a guy, please do yourself and your wife a favor by getting a very good filter for your internet connection first. There are just too many temptations out there for you to contend with when you are innocently looking for other things.]
I was surprised about the quality and quantity of martial resources on the internet. I had no idea that other people were struggling with their marriages also and had shared what worked for them through the internet.
Now if you find yourself on that same runaway train, you know that there is hope of slowing it down and getting it back on track by finding out how others have saved their marriages.
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