Saving Your Relationship without Loosing Your Pride

You want him back but you don’t want to look pathetic? Though you have eaten all the chocolates in the world because you feel sad, pride is still a bitter pill to swallow. You would not want to see yourself, crawling back to your partner on your knees and begging him to come back to you. Nobody wants a desperate person. Winning love back is not impossible. you just need the perfect plan! Here are some ways on how to save your relationship without losing your pride:

• Do not even attempt to make the first move!  Even though you are so tempted to get back to your ex, stop yourself from showing signs of wanting reconciliation or making the first move. Unless it was your fault, do not start typing his phone number on your mobile phone screen. If the both of your parted ways, try not to get in touch with your ex first. If he is the one who made the first move, just follow the lead and show some signs that there is still hope for the both of you to be together again.A little break from your ex will give you both time to reflect and some time for the real feelings to settle in. Most importantly, it will not make you look like you are desperate to be back with your ex soon after you broke up.

• Don’t play hard to get. He already made the first move, step forward as well. Don’t ignore his emails and text message. You can answer it with friendly, non-committal replies. You can answer his calls as well. During this time, it is quite acceptable if you call, email or text him first. But just remember not to overdo it. Perhaps, say hello and a friendly, "how is your day?" would do.
• Be subtle. So you want to remind him of the good times you have in the past, do it in a not-so-obvious way. When you and him are already engage in a long conversation, slowly talk your way in remembering the old days. Casually, remind him of what it used to be and just nonchalantly throw in a few ‘I miss those’ phrases. But please remember do not overexert your effort.
• Make him a little jealous. He’s not the only one who wants you! Make him realize that you can actually live without him and that somehow you’ve moved on. You can try going out with other men too but do not force yourself to do this. Still, let him know that though you can definitely live without him, you will be happier if you are back in his arms again. Make him realize that he was so stupid to give you up, but of course, never brag this to his face.
Don’t let your pain show. You were miserable and hurt when he left, but he doesn’t really need to know it. Though the pain can break your soul into tiny pieces and you heard your heart fell apart, try your best not to show it. Letting him know that you want him could boost his ego and could be misinterpreted. Just play it cool and don’t overdo it.

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