How To Get Him Back Even If The Chances Are Nil

If Lou Pardini's "What Might Have Been" or Babyface's "What If" are the tunes your heart sings, then you are probably thinking of ways on how to get him back.

When after a break up your heart still beats for that one person that shows you only slight chances of taking you back, then don't mop around. Here are some tips you can use to lure him back to your arms even the chances are little.

Give him space. Maybe, one of the reasons why the two of you broke up is that your boyfriend he can no longer breathe. Give him all the time he needs to be himself again. Never be desperate. Don't come running to him begging for his return, you'll only push him away more.

Be a friend again.  After giving him the space he needs, start your scheme on getting him back by being his friend again. Let him know that even after the break-up, you'll always be his friend. Someone he can laugh with, cry with and share secrets with. Even if it means hearing stories about him liking another girl.

Make him remember the good old times. Since you are friends again, you can make him realize what he's missing out by not being with you by going down memory lane.  But when you do this don't make such a big deal about it. Just act casual and make him feel that you're okay talking about your past.

Be independent and stop being too needy. Guys hate it when girls are too needy. To learn how to get him back also means that you need to improve yourself.  Make your ex know that you've changed and you can do it on your own.

Don't be too obvious in expressing your desire to get him back. The worst you can do is to throw yourself at your ex-boyfriend. You must show that you are your own person. The key is to be subtle.

Having said these ways, before you go on your quest on getting your prince charming back and taking these advices on how to get him back it is important that you really know the reason why you want him back. Also, you must be ready for any result that these may have, may it be positive or negative. If you don't succeed in getting him back then let him go besides there are other fish in the sea.


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