Save Your Relationship After A Fight

It is quite difficult to save your relationship after a fight especially when both of you are blinded by anger. The most sensitive time in any relationship is the time after your big fight. The both of you are still furious with each other, and you know you should talk about what went wrong, but you wouldn’t want to start another fight just by asking the wrong question. Or maybe it is pride that is standing in between the two of you – after all, he was the one who was wrong, why would you apologize first?

A number of couples do "time-out" after they fought, whether it is agreed by two parties or, unluckily, because one person has distanced themselves from the other, usually by leaving the room. Sooner or later, however, you have to come back and talk about the problem. If you want to save your relationship, and steer it towards renewed fun, romance and passion, just follow these tips:

• Allow your emotions to calm down – leave him or her alone for some time. Many women feel that they need to talk things over right after the fight. This could be your fatal mistake – though women would love to have a man call and comfort her when the argument ends, men operate differently. They wanted peace and quiet so that he can think and try to solve this relationship problems. While you provide him with the space he needed, try to cool down your heated emotions, and be happy once again. A man is definitely attracted to a woman who radiates with happiness.
• Show to your partner that he or she is more important than the fight. How you will do this will depend on her preferences- there are women who does not want to be touched when she is still mad, there are some who wanted to be hugged even if she’s still mad. It could be anything – a gesture, smile, or just simple words, "I am ready if ever you are." The biggest mistake you can do is to try and win the clash by surviving her anger and emotional distance. Demonstrate you are able to get past your emotions and work on being partners.
• Admit your mistakes. It will not kill you to accept responsibility for your part of the fight. All it takes is swallowing your pride. Remember that it takes two to cause a fight, and though you believe that you haven’t done anything wrong, you still contributed. Admitting your mistake is a nice way to start your reconciliation. It is very easy to blame your partner for a fight, calling them names, but it generally involves both parties to turn a simple misunderstanding into a full-blown fight. So discover what your mistake is and own up to it. Your partner will be really pleased and who knows, he or she might admit that she was wrong in some ways as well.
• Time to heal. Try to treat each other with a little extra kindness during this vulnerable time, as it can still be quite painful together after the fight. This is also the right time to check the reason why there was a fight in the first place. A simple "I am sorry" cannot solve the problem all the time. You cannot expect everything to suddenly go back to the way it was before. The trust was broken, and you or your partner may not feel secure with the relationship anymore. Acknowledge the fact and respect it.

Fights are part of a relationship. How you deal with it is your choice. You can point fingers, call names, blame each other, hurt each other or – you can deal with your differences in a mature, adult way, confessing your own pain and vulnerability and taking responsibility for your actions. It is just so easy to save your relationship after a fight, all you need is to take the first step.

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